Just a guy who found exercise late in life. I absolutely LOVE running and CrossFit. But, you'll only have to be around me for a few minutes to figure that out.

Having a training partner is my key to success

I’ve only been truly actively exercising for a little over 5 years now, and in all the training I’ve logged, I can tell you without a doubt that having someone to train with has been the key to my completing the assigned training. I don’t think I’ve ever intentionally skipped a workout where someone was willing to meet up with me. How many workouts have I skipped that I was doing on my own? Too many to count. Without someone there it’s just easier to nix the workout and decide you can make it up another day.

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Depending on the event I was training for, and whether a friend was training for the same thing, my training primary training partner has changed from time to time. But I’ve always had one, and I realize this is likely the single biggest reason I’ve seen the success in completing the different events that I’ve done.

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The training partners I’ve had haven’t always been the same speed as me either. Sometimes they were faster, sometimes they were slower. Sometimes we run side-by-side, other time we’re doing the same run but at our own pace. Somehow for me, even when I wasn’t right next to my training partner knowing that they were out there suffering through the same miserable workout that I was made it easier for me to get through it.

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It’s also about accountability… Like I mentioned early, I can’t even begin to count the number of workouts I skipped where I was doing the workout on my own. But when someone was meeting me? I can’t remember ever missing one of those workouts. Having someone to call you a day or two before, and make sure you’re still planning on making it. Some days you’re into it, some days you aren’t. That’s OK, and that’s to be expected. But having a training partner ensures that when you’re having a bad day/week, they’ll drag you out there anyway. And when they’re having a bad day/week, you drag them out there.

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Sometimes the good/bad parts can happen DURING the workout. One of my best friends, Scott Smith, and I used to run together EVERY SINGLE WEEKEND, almost without fail. Life has gotten in the way, and injuries and other stuff have kept us from continuing that pattern. But when we did run together, he typically felt good at the beginning of the run, when I was hating life. It never failed, we’d get started, and within a mile or two, I’d be having thoughts in my head of quitting. But because Scott was out there with me, I pushed through, and kept going. Later in the run, I’d be feeling really good, and he’d be having the thoughts of wanting to quit. But because I was out there with him, he pushed through, and would finish the workout.

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I’ve been lucky in being able to find training partners. My current training partner, Brad Montgomery, does long rides and long runs with me on the weekend. It’s typically not a matter of IF we are doing something, but what time are we starting, and where are we going. He has only ever done running races, but he’s up for doing the training rides with me that I needed to do while training for my next triathlon.

What if my friends aren’t interested in training with me?

Don’t have any existing friends that are into the same things you’re into? I’d bet there’s a local group you can find to run with. Join them for group runs, and you’ll make a couple of friends that you can meet up with at other times when a group run isn’t available. I just can’t stress enough how much it will improve your likelihood of success for whatever event or goal you’re training for.

Good luck, and if you live in the Memphis area and need a training buddy, hit me up on Twitter (@thirstyrunner), and I’ll join you if I can!

About Me

I'm a guy who found exercise late in life, and loving pushing myself to new limits.

2015 Goals:
Complete my first Half Ironman
Get back to sub-8 min/mile average pace for 5K

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Race PR

5K 2012 MayFest 5K 21:36
4-miler 2012 Cooper Young 4-miler 33:43
5-miler 2012 RRS 2nd 5-miler 38:27
10K 2011 RRS 1st 10K 48:53
Half Marathon 2012 RRS 1st Half Marathon 1:50:36
25K - trail 2014 Swampstomper 25K 3:25:49
Marathon 2012 My Bartlett Marathon 4:25:22
50K - trail 2015 Mississippi Trails 50K 7:01:50
50 miler - trail 2013 Mississippi Trails 50 11:51:33
Olympic Triathlon 2015 Memphis In May Triathlon 3:32:26
Half Ironman Triathlon 2015 Ironman 70.3 Austin, TX 8:17:42

(Ultra)Marathon Results

3/7 Mississippi Trails 50K 7:01:50
1/11 DisneyWorld Marathon/Dopey Challenge 5:13:35
12/6 St. Jude Marathon 4:55:50
9/14 Stanky Creek 50K 7:14:45
10/13 Chicago Marathon 4:44:52
03/02 Mississippi Trails 50 miler 1:51:33
02/09 Mississippi River Marathon 4:48:13
01/20 Swampstomper 50K 7:51:03
12/1 St. Jude Marathon 5:15:20
04/07 My Bartlett Marathon 4:25:22
01/08 Disney World Marathon/Goofy Challenge 5:26:25
12/03 St. Jude Memphis Marathon 4:50:59
04/09 Andrew Jackson Marathon 5:40:11
03/06 Little Rock Marathon 4:57:12